PS Malik gives you – 6 Steps to meet Emotional Infidelity of your partner

6 steps plan for dealing with an emotional infidelity.

1. BEGIN BY GIVING HIM THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT.

Some men truly don’t recognize that their friendships with women cross over into inappropriateness. Most of the times, it becomes terse, dry and arid. You have to moist your relation with the steam of love and care.

2. EXPLAIN YOUR FEELINGS.

Try saying something like, “I love the relationship that we have and I trust YOU, but I am uncomfortable with how close you are to ….”.  usually our response becomes much more accusatory causing our partner to become defensive. Your partner will not fine you, first palatable then, tolerable.

Don’t make your mate feel sorry; protect his/her honor as you do it with yours.

3. CLARIFY THAT IT’S NOT THE MOTIVE, IT’S THE BEHAVIOR.

Your partner may truly see nothing wrong with its special relationship, especially if it truly has not developed intense romantic feelings toward the outsider. Explain your partner calmly that his/her motives behind the friendship are not in question, but that his/her behavior (spending one-on-one time with the outsider, confiding in one another, not integrating you into the friendship) is inappropriate for someone in a committed relationship and it needs to be changed.

4. SET SPECIFIC BOUNDARIES.

PS Malik sends you five humorous aspects of life -  enjoy them:        

Important Document

A young executive was leaving the office late one evening when she found the CEO standing in front of a shredder with a piece of paper in her hand.

"Listen," said the CEO, "this is a very sensitive and important document here, and my secretary has gone for the night. Can you make this thing work?"

"Certainly," said the young executive.

She turned the machine on, inserted the paper, and pressed the start button.

"Excellent, excellent!" said the CEO as his paper disappeared inside the machine. "I just need one copy."